Father's Day

Father's Day is a time, of course, to think about what it really means to be a dad. I think we can take it a step further; it is a time to think about what it means to be a man, especially a godly man.

At my day job, since I work with many who are considerably younger than I am, I have been called "dad" on occasion.

It's a nice sentiment, especially since I am not actually a father even at this stage in life. It's a role that I embrace, honestly. But I definitely fall short of that role.

Obviously, I can't say I know what it's like to be a dad for real.

But I have observed many dads over the years, especially my own. I'm certainly thankful for the impact and example he and others have had on my life.

I guess if, as one who is not yet a father, I had to define what one is, I would say that it is to be a godly man.

That is, a man who honors God above all else, who loves sacrificially, who shows up even when it's tough, who is there for others, and stands up for those in need. He provides, protects, and prays for those under his care. He knows that apart from the power of God in his life, he is nothing. When he is wrong, he makes it right. When he is right, he doesn't gloat. He exemplifies love (1 Corinthians 13) and Christlikeness. He does all of this imperfectly, falling on the perfect grace of His perfect Savior.

May we, even we who aren't fathers (and maybe won't ever be), strive to be such men. The world needs more men like that, more fathers like that.

If you're not there? Welcome to the team. None of us are. But may we keep our eyes on God as He leads us forward and sets the example of what it means to be "Father".

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